It is hard to believe that Thanksgiving is knocking on our doorstep and Christmas is not too far off. This semester in college has absolutely flown by and now everyone is focused on finishing up with finals and heading home for the holidays. I was absolutely stumped about a good topic for capping off for my blogs for this semester until I stumbled across a video online about a young boy named Brendan Foster. At 11 years old, Brendan faced terminal Leukemia and only had a little over a week to live. His message was so inspirational that I could not help but pass it along in hopes that everyone can learn a little bit more about the true importance of this holiday season.
Brendan Foster was a young boy well beyond his years. At only 11 years old, he spoke with the profound wisdom of an elder. His strength throughout the seriousness of his situation completely blew me away. Without doubt, his greatest statement that everyone should hear comes within the first part of the interview. When asked what are the best things about life, Brendan replied, “just having one.” To a young boy who loved to play outside, one would expect to hear trivial things such as hikes, adventures, sports, video games, etc. I am not completely sure I could have even come up with an answer so inspirational. He completely blew me away. The greatest thing in life is just having one. How many times do we take that for granted? How often do we forget that there are people less fortunate than us that do not get to take part in, what we see as some of the most normal of life experiences? Certainly having the opportunity to be able to attend a university such as Southern Methodist University is an opportunity that we are all blessed with.
Brendan’s last wish before he died was to help the homeless. How often do you hear about eleven-year-old boys desiring to help the homeless? How many adults would make their last wish to help the homeless, especially if they were staring death in the face?? The society that we live in has downplayed the importance of giving around the holiday season. With gifts, and trees, and lights, and Santa Clause, who could possibly even think about giving? Brendan Foster did. All across the nation, people joined in Brendan’s wish. They fed numerous homeless people around the country. And Brendan was lucky enough to see how much his wish affected the lives of so many people around the country. He could rest in peace knowing that he gave of himself, and became an inspiration for so many others.
Brendan Foster’s message did not stop here. When asked about what makes him sad, tears began to run down his cheek as he replied, “When someone gives up.” How many times throughout our daily activities do we give up because something is too hard or we are too lazy to do the work? Think about how many people you know just in our college environment that drop classes or miss an opportunity because they were not willing to do what was required of them. I feel guilty inside when I think about all of the times I have given up. This eleven-year-old boy remained strong until the very end. Even while dealing with an insurmountable challenge, Brendan focused solely on helping others. He was able to see his wish come true. He was a genuine giver, selfless in all aspects and a great inspiration to many.
For those of you who watch this video, I hope your eyes are opened just as much as mine have been. Brendan defined the spirit of the holiday season. His message to everyone is, “follow your dreams. Don’t let anything stop you.” So as you sit at home over this long and relaxing holiday, between opening gifts and eating big feasts, think about Brendan Foster. Think about the true meaning of the season. Think about how blessed you are and how much just one person can make a difference in the lives of so many. I guarantee his message will not soon be forgotten.
http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/2008/11/22/jaffe.wa.boy.dying.wish.obit.komo